Thursday, 26 June 2014

Can I Still Find True Love- Divorced Female Reader

Hello,
I would appreciate if you could post this on your blog plsssssss. Could you please don't publish my email address.
I am a 31 year old female with no kids who is unfortunately divorced. Before LLbers chop off my head, the divorce was not because I did anything wrong ooooh. I fought and did everything to make my marriage work but my ex-husband was a nightmare and stole turned broke me badly.

Anyways, my question is this: knowing how we Nigerians can be very judgemental of divorced women, what do you think are my chances of ever finding true love again and getting married? 
Is there anyone here who has been through a divorce (female please) and remarried? How easy was it to find someone who was willing to go all the way with you?
Men in the house, would you marry a woman who has been married before?
Parents, would you allow your son marry a Nigerian woman who has been previously married?
No, I am not desperate to marry again but I have somehow gotten myself to believe that I am never going to find true love again and I really want to hear that I might be wrong. It’s tough having your love life end at 31.

I know the stigma attached with being a female divorcee in Nigeria and it really saddens me cos not everyone who has a failed marriage actually deserves the treatment we get.

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